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~ Lisa Nichols
It was a breath of fresh air. I began to realize that the freedom I felt/experienced on the coaching call was something I was created to enjoy and able to have in my life on a daily basis.
~ Chantel C.
Vasavi has a compassionate and caring style of coaching with the perfect level of toughness that allowed me to push myself toward my intended outcomes.
~ Melissa R.
Emotions are extremely powerful. They have the ability to impair our judgement, cloud our mind, and make us do things that we would never normally do. What if you were able to feel your emotions, but still have complete control of them? I know it sounds too good to be true, but let’s do some investigating.
We are going to look at one of the most powerful and potentially dangerous emotions.
What happens when you get angry?
Do you scream?
Say hurtful words?
All of the above?
Anger is a natural emotion. Every single person on this planet has felt anger at one time or another. Everyone reacts differently. Some may even turn to drugs and alcohol to stuff that emotion deep down inside of them so as to not feel the intensity of it. It holds so much power over many people and they don’t even realize it.
A perfect example is road rage. When someone cuts you off in traffic and you start cursing at them in your car, you just let that person’s actions have power over you. You also may speed up and try to cut them off to get revenge while possibly putting yourself or others in danger.
Is this rational?
Hell no it’s not.
Number one, they cannot even hear you, so why are you wasting your energy calling them unspeakable things?
Number two, you just lowered yourself trying to get revenge and could have gotten seriously hurt.
Let’s look at this situation free of any emotion whatsoever.
I have something that I’ve been dying to get off my chest. So here goes: Whether you believe me or not, you were gifted this life to make a difference in the lives of others. Now, maybe you already know this. But in my line of work, I am always asked this one question: What is my purpose?
What if I told you that your purpose is as simple as: Discovering, learning about, creating, and being YOU. Like really? What if all you had to do was to show up each and every day as your most frickin’ fabulous self? And listen, I get it. Some days aren’t so hot. I’m not talking about being perfect. I’m talkng about being YOU.
And you my friend, were not put here on this Earth to be perfect.
Perfect is boring anyways and leads to high blood pressure and stress..not fun. I can’t imagine me NOT doing what I am doing in the world. Talking to people, listening about their dreams, their goals, and supporting them in getting exactly what they want. Essentially, a life designed by YOU, for YOU, so that you can be of service to OTHERS.
If figuring out what you want has been a struggle for you, I recommend two things:
— Check out my course, The Art of Taking Confident Action
— Schedule a 20-minute chat with where we can talk about ways that we can work together so you can stop trying to “figure things out” and start living on purpose.
There was a point in my life where i lived in a Vasavi bubble. When I got out of my little bubble, and started to focus my energy on “What can I do for you?”- that’s when my life totally shifted. But in order for me to walk down that path, i had to get crystal, like CRYSTAL clear on what i truly desired in my life FIRST. I’m not talking about the things that i wanted, I’m talking how i wanted to feel.
On today’s Keepin’ It Real, you’re going to learn that finding your purpose isn’t hard at all. After you watch this week’s vid, I would love to hear from you:
What does it mean to “live on purpose” for you?
Can’t wait to hear from you in the comments below.
One of the biggest aspects of personal growth and becoming self aware is your relationship to your parents. Usually, when you still get triggered by your parents, or you find yourself seeking their approval in any area of your life, that is the biggest indicator that you still have work to do regarding your self growth.
Before you make decisions about anything, do you have to stop and consider what your parents would think about it?
Or if you make a mistake or do something that you think they wouldn’t approve of, do you hold back from telling them about it?
If the answer is yes, this is a huge red flag.
Why do they get to run your life?
Why does anyone get to run your life for that matter?
Why does it matter what they think?
You are no longer twelve years old anymore.
You no longer need to ask permission to go out and do what you want to do.
You’re not going to get grounded and shamed by your family. Well maybe you’ll get shamed.
Not sure if I’ve ever told you this, but i’ve never had a job. Well, unless you count working at CVS when I was 16 years old at Roosevelt Field Mall on Long Island. And in 2015 when I took a sabbatical from my business and worked five jobs!!
I get emails everyday from people just like you who want to transition from their full time gig to making their passion their “side hustle.” You may already be living out your passion in the form of your business and in that case, CONGRATULATIONS for making that happen.
I know it must be tough to make that transition from 9-5 and having a “safe and secure” paycheck to entrepreneurship where honestly, the first few years can either be sink or swim. You see when I first started my business, I was constantly reminded that I had an Ivy League education and “Why the hell can’t you just get a job like normal people?”
Have you ever thought about quitting your day job? If so, today’s Keepin’ It Real video is for you.
And guess what? Even if you have never asked yourself that, watch today’s vid anyway because whether or not you have ever explored the possibility of venturing out and starting your own business- at some point in your life- there may come a time where you are curious about what else is out there for you. It’s human nature. I’m true to my astrological sign (Taurus) and stubborn as a bull, so no matter what anyone said to me, I stuck with it. I kept going. And, even when I had to forego getting my nails done or go out to dinners with my friends because I had other financial responsibilities, I kept hustling as if my life depended on it (it did). And let me tell you, IT WAS WORTH IT.
Once you watch today’s video, I would love to hear your answer to this question below in the comments: Have you ever thought of quitting your day job to fulfill a long lost dream? Do you ever ask yourself, “ Is this it?”
Can’t wait to hear what you have to say. And if you know that you have a passion or an idea that you have been sitting on and not taking any action then check out my free video training on how to take action on ONE business idea in less than 20 minutes. Get it here: www.vasavikumar.com/focusedaction