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I love to hear the inspiring powerful presence you have.  Keep up the amazing work, women need you!

~ Lisa Nichols

It was a breath of fresh air. I began to realize that the freedom I felt/experienced on the coaching call was something I was created to enjoy and able to have in my life on a daily basis.

~ Chantel C.

Vasavi has a compassionate and caring style of coaching with the perfect level of toughness that allowed me to push myself toward my intended outcomes.

~ Melissa R.

circa 2002

Dear Vasavi,

I know you think that you know everything. You don’t. In fact, you are about to make a whole lotta bad choices. I’m here to tell you that it’s ok. You will survive. In fact, you will thrive. You can’t stop me from sharing my lessons from the future with you. So open and read this letter when you are ready.

P.S. There is no such thing as being ready. So read it now.

1. go with your gut. always.

2. if it sounds like and feels like that guy just wants one thing from you..he probably does.

3. you aren’t “too much.” other people just don’t have the capacity to be with all of you. So don’t stop shining bright.

4. you can’t buy friends with money, or gifts, or favors, or saying YES all the time.

5. listen to your mother. you may think she is a pain in the neck, but she gets nothing out of seeing you suffer.

6. slow down. your time is coming.

7. sex isn’t a substitute for love.

8. drink more water. put down the vodka cranberry.

9. feel your feelings. self-medicating with drugs isn’t working for ya.

10. don’t treat your nearest and dearest like doormats.

11. what other people think of you isn’t your problem. so mind yo’ business.

12. yes, you are here to make a huge impact on the planet. start with making a difference with you.

13. you’re going to make a lot of mistakes. it will serve you in the long run.

14. the company you keep will make you or break you. stop chasing after the “cool” kids. YOU are awesome.

15. don’t pay attention to the bullies. They’ll get theirs.

16. life and the people around you are your greatest spiritual teachers. stop needing to be right all the time.

17. trust trust trust. God has always had your back.

18. have fun. worrying and suffering are optional.

19. number one spirit killer? not being true to you. take the mask off.

P.P.S. Yes, you are loveable and you do matter. Oh, and God will forgive you. Will you?

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BLOGSeptember 13, 2011

Remember There Is More


Disclaimer: This post pertains to all people, regardless of religious affiliation. For that reason, “Higher Being”, “God”, “Universe”, etc. will be used interchangeably.

Amidst the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it’s not only easy—but common—to get hung up on the small things. We get so caught up micromanaging our schedules and worrying about all of the facets of life that we’ll never have control over until we’re blue in the face and drowning in a toxic sea of stress.

Yet we seem to so easily forget that stress is an internal conversation that we create within ourselves. The truth is that we possess both the power and control to handle our stress productively. If we choose to do so, our stress can impact our lives in meaningful—rather than hindering—ways.

However, we often do not do this, and therefore find ourselves stuck. When this happens, where do we turn? Do we cope by adding another seven things to our to-do lists, or do we look within ourselves and channel the Spirit that has always existed within us? Our answer to this question can make all the difference. And, while some of us may be more spiritual than others, it is never too late to begin that journey to become one with the Spirit.

By living with a special consciousness of the Universe, we can begin to reclaim our lives. When we learn to stop and take a break from this crazy world for at least a few minutes each day in order to peer inside ourselves, we’ll learn to remain aware of a Higher Being and let that Spirit continually envelope our lives.

When we do so, we acknowledge that there is something out there much greater than us. We remember that we are not in this world alone, and that, ultimately, a bigger picture exists that is absolutely stunning. We’d be foolish not to take the time to admire its beauty on our own journeys.


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