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Do you tolerate people’s rudeness because you want to be seen as “nice” rather than rude or bitchy? Do you find yourself agreeing to things that you don’t really want to do? Do you have a hard time standing up for yourself?
As children we were trained to be “nice” and polite.”
Let me just say this right here: Being “nice” isn’t an indicator of your success as a human.
Being able to honor yourself and your boundaries is what will take you farther in life.
Welcome to step one of creating stronger boundaries.
Today we’re talking about something every person on the planet has done! That’s right we’re diving into why we judge others and the bigger impact it has on our life.
Tune into my latest Keepin’ It Real video below for my insights on this highly debatable topic and then be sure to share your thoughts in the comments below.
Click play to dig in. Once you’re done watching, I would love to hear from you:
What do you think the judgments that you have about others say about how you’re judging yourself?
Let me know!
P.S. Want to conquer your judgments once and for all so you can truly be free? Check out my 21 day guide to freedom.
Emotions are extremely powerful. They have the ability to impair our judgement, cloud our mind, and make us do things that we would never normally do. What if you were able to feel your emotions, but still have complete control of them? I know it sounds too good to be true, but let’s do some investigating.
We are going to look at one of the most powerful and potentially dangerous emotions.
What happens when you get angry?
Do you scream?
Say hurtful words?
All of the above?
Anger is a natural emotion. Every single person on this planet has felt anger at one time or another. Everyone reacts differently. Some may even turn to drugs and alcohol to stuff that emotion deep down inside of them so as to not feel the intensity of it. It holds so much power over many people and they don’t even realize it.
A perfect example is road rage. When someone cuts you off in traffic and you start cursing at them in your car, you just let that person’s actions have power over you. You also may speed up and try to cut them off to get revenge while possibly putting yourself or others in danger.
Is this rational?
Hell no it’s not.
Number one, they cannot even hear you, so why are you wasting your energy calling them unspeakable things?
Number two, you just lowered yourself trying to get revenge and could have gotten seriously hurt.
Let’s look at this situation free of any emotion whatsoever.
I have something that I’ve been dying to get off my chest. So here goes: Whether you believe me or not, you were gifted this life to make a difference in the lives of others. Now, maybe you already know this. But in my line of work, I am always asked this one question: What is my purpose?
What if I told you that your purpose is as simple as: Discovering, learning about, creating, and being YOU. Like really? What if all you had to do was to show up each and every day as your most frickin’ fabulous self? And listen, I get it. Some days aren’t so hot. I’m not talking about being perfect. I’m talkng about being YOU.
And you my friend, were not put here on this Earth to be perfect.
Perfect is boring anyways and leads to high blood pressure and stress..not fun. I can’t imagine me NOT doing what I am doing in the world. Talking to people, listening about their dreams, their goals, and supporting them in getting exactly what they want. Essentially, a life designed by YOU, for YOU, so that you can be of service to OTHERS.
If figuring out what you want has been a struggle for you, I recommend two things:
— Check out my course, The Art of Taking Confident Action
— Schedule a 20-minute chat with where we can talk about ways that we can work together so you can stop trying to “figure things out” and start living on purpose.
There was a point in my life where i lived in a Vasavi bubble. When I got out of my little bubble, and started to focus my energy on “What can I do for you?”- that’s when my life totally shifted. But in order for me to walk down that path, i had to get crystal, like CRYSTAL clear on what i truly desired in my life FIRST. I’m not talking about the things that i wanted, I’m talking how i wanted to feel.
On today’s Keepin’ It Real, you’re going to learn that finding your purpose isn’t hard at all. After you watch this week’s vid, I would love to hear from you:
What does it mean to “live on purpose” for you?
Can’t wait to hear from you in the comments below.