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The Dark Side.
This at first glance, may seem like a Star Wars reference. If you haven’t seen Star Wars and don’t know what I’m talking about, then shame on you (kidding, I’ve never seen it myself).
We all have this side to ourselves. The part that we don’t normally want to look at. The part that we don’t tell people about. It’s not pretty I’ll give you that. It definitely should not be allowed to play and frolic on a regular basis.
It’s still you.
What if I told you that this also could be your greatest asset?
I know this does not sound very realistic, but really give it some thought. If and I mean IF you were truly able to accept this part of yourself along with all the wonderful, amazing, rainbow unicorn parts, there would be nothing left to judge.
You would no longer have those painful thoughts of you making those horrible decisions in college. Or that time you decided to steal something, lie, cheat, manipulate, or con somebody.
Before I get into today’s post I wanted to make sure you heard about and checked out my brand new company, so(ul) special!!! Head on over to www.soulspecial.club and sign up because I’ll be sending you exciting updates about what’s to come!
When you do something do you do it with complete confidence?
Even when it’s something you have never done before?
Do you have something you would love to do but are too scared to even try it?
What if you knew you could face any challenge without having any self-doubt tainting your thoughts?
I know these are a lot of questions.
I’m hoping I can help get some of them answered.
Or you can just enjoy your lack of self confidence.
Either way, no skin off my back.
What are your first thoughts when you face a new challenge in your life?
“I can’t do that.”
“That seems difficult.”
“That’s too much work.”
If you like taking the easy way out, all these phrases are 100% valid.
I sent out a survey last week asking the single biggest challenge in figuring out ways to make money doing what you love.
Do you want to know what the most common responses were?
“I have no clue what I want.”
“I have too many dreams and don’t know where to begin.”
“I don’t know where to start.”
“I’ve never taken the time out to ask myself what the hell I want out of MY life.”
“Too many ideas, not enough focus.”
Einstein once said,
“We can not solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created them”
If that is truly the case Vasavi, then I got good news and bad news.
Bad news: Unless you begin to do the inner work to figure out what you want out of your life, nothing will change.
Good news: I have a great first step for you to take.
As someone that has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and ADHD, I’m a proud believer that no matter HOW confused or scattered you may feel like right now, that you can ABSOLUTELY have anything that you want.
The big question is, how bad do you want it?
Are you able to see the online coaching world for what it really is?
Have you had time to take a step back?
Feels oddly familiar. Just rewind your life about fifteen to twenty years (maybe more for some of you 🙂 ).
Yes I’m talking about high school. That confusing time in our life.
When we were trying to fit in somewhere. Wanting to be accepted. Doing just about anything to be liked. Compromising your values, what you really believed in, all to just to be a part of that crowd that had the ultimate influence.
The ultimate image.
The ultimate prestige.
Everyone at some point (unless you were one of those cool kids) got sucked into the black hole. The cool kids had a sneaky way of making you feel like your life was shit, and if you wanted to “be somebody” that you had to be exactly like them. These were the jocks, the cheerleaders, the “hot” girls, and the “handsome” guys. Well guess what?
It is literally the exact same way in the online coaching world.